By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Derek_Rake]Derek Rake
There are just too much WRONG advice about flirting out there. People will tell you to "maintain eye contact", "smile" and "be a good listener" - but these are just too general and common to be effective. Read on to discover the REAL deal about flirting, and find out about the three little-known but deadly effective strategies which will make you stand out from the crowd.
Three Ways To Flirt And Make Girls Get Irresistibly Attracted To You
Method #1. Be Cocky & Challenging. Here's the bottom line - the basis of all flirting is to show how confident you are. However, being confident alone will not guarantee you success. You will need to push the envelope a little in order to be different from the other men. It is entirely harmless (at least from a bantering standpoint) to be cocky - as long as you don't pass as 'arrogant' you're fine. If you made a remark which could be taken as arrogant, quickly inject some humor into the conversation, and you'll recover.
Method #2. Timing Is Everything. Speed and spontaneity is the name of the game. Learn to think on your feet, and if you're not naturally spontaneous and witty, develop a set of 'routines' which you can use. These routines may sound 'scripted', but with practice, they will sound natural and spontaneous.
(Advanced) Method #3. The Art of Fractionation. This is the technique that you can use to combine with your flirting to achieve explosive results. Using a 'trick' lifted from the practice of hypnosis, a man is able to generate extreme attraction in the woman by bringing her through an emotional rollercoaster.
If you are interested in learning more about fractionation to flirt with women, it is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Tactics free ebook - http://www.DeadlySeduction.com
Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.
These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.
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Saturday, September 20, 2008
Monday, April 7, 2008
SIRC Guide to Flirting review
Flirting is much more than just a bit of fun: it is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Anthropological research shows that flirting is to be found, in some form, in all cultures and societies around the world.
Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature. This is not surprising: if we did not initiate contact and express interest in members of the opposite sex, we would not progress to reproduction, and the human species would become extinct.
According to some evolutionary psychologists, flirting may even be the foundation of civilisation as we know it. They argue that the large human brain – our superior intelligence, complex language, everything that distinguishes us from animals – is the equivalent of the peacock's tail: a courtship device evolved to attract and retain sexual partners. Our achievements in everything from art to rocket science may be merely a side-effect of the essential ability to charm.
If flirting is instinctive, why do we need this Guide?
Like every other human activity, flirting is governed by a complex set of unwritten laws of etiquette. These rules dictate where, when, with whom and in what manner we flirt. We generally obey these unofficial laws instinctively, without being conscious of doing so.
We only become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette – by flirting with the wrong person, perhaps, or at an inappropriate time or place. Chatting up a widow at her husband's funeral, for example, would at the very least incur disapproval, if not serious distress or anger.
This is a very obvious example, but the more complex and subtle aspects of flirting etiquette can be confusing – and most of us have made a few embarrassing mistakes. Research shows that men find it particularly difficult to interpret the more subtle cues in women's body-language, and tend to mistake friendliness for sexual interest.
Another problem is that in some rather Puritanical cultures, such as Britain and North America, flirting has acquired a bad name. Some of us have become so worried about causing offence or sending the wrong signals that we are in danger of losing our natural talent for playful, harmless flirtation.
So, to save the human race from extinction, and preserve the foundations of civilisation, Martini commissioned Kate Fox at the Social Issues Research Centre to review and analyse all the scientific research material on interaction between the sexes, and produce a definitive guide to the art and etiquette of enjoyable flirting.
Psychologists and social scientists have spent many years studying every detail of social intercourse between men and women. Until now, their fascinating findings have been buried in obscure academic journals and heavy tomes full of jargon and footnotes. This Guide is the first to reveal this important information to a popular audience, providing expert advice on where to flirt, who to flirt with and how to do it.
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature. This is not surprising: if we did not initiate contact and express interest in members of the opposite sex, we would not progress to reproduction, and the human species would become extinct.
According to some evolutionary psychologists, flirting may even be the foundation of civilisation as we know it. They argue that the large human brain – our superior intelligence, complex language, everything that distinguishes us from animals – is the equivalent of the peacock's tail: a courtship device evolved to attract and retain sexual partners. Our achievements in everything from art to rocket science may be merely a side-effect of the essential ability to charm.
If flirting is instinctive, why do we need this Guide?
Like every other human activity, flirting is governed by a complex set of unwritten laws of etiquette. These rules dictate where, when, with whom and in what manner we flirt. We generally obey these unofficial laws instinctively, without being conscious of doing so.
We only become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette – by flirting with the wrong person, perhaps, or at an inappropriate time or place. Chatting up a widow at her husband's funeral, for example, would at the very least incur disapproval, if not serious distress or anger.
This is a very obvious example, but the more complex and subtle aspects of flirting etiquette can be confusing – and most of us have made a few embarrassing mistakes. Research shows that men find it particularly difficult to interpret the more subtle cues in women's body-language, and tend to mistake friendliness for sexual interest.
Another problem is that in some rather Puritanical cultures, such as Britain and North America, flirting has acquired a bad name. Some of us have become so worried about causing offence or sending the wrong signals that we are in danger of losing our natural talent for playful, harmless flirtation.
So, to save the human race from extinction, and preserve the foundations of civilisation, Martini commissioned Kate Fox at the Social Issues Research Centre to review and analyse all the scientific research material on interaction between the sexes, and produce a definitive guide to the art and etiquette of enjoyable flirting.
Psychologists and social scientists have spent many years studying every detail of social intercourse between men and women. Until now, their fascinating findings have been buried in obscure academic journals and heavy tomes full of jargon and footnotes. This Guide is the first to reveal this important information to a popular audience, providing expert advice on where to flirt, who to flirt with and how to do it.
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
Saturday, March 8, 2008
The Smart Guide To Dating - How Not To Waste Your Time In The Dating World
Whether you are single, playing the field, picking up the pieces of your broken-heart or even if you are in a relationship, all of us could benefit from some dating advice from time to time. Since the majority of us aren't mind readers, it can sometimes be difficult to interpret the words and actions of the opposite sex. The Smart Guide to Dating is a "what should be common sense" guide to dating. It sheds light upon common dating misconceptions that both men and women alike are guilty of committing, or lack there of. Read on to enlighten yourself with the quirky and love-sick findings of a serial dater and the eyes and ears and that have seen and heard it all.
In my personal quest to find "the one" I have always found the guy who is "the one for right now" who naturally turns out to be "not quite what I had in mind" and then ultimately "why didn't you guys stop me!" Yes, we have all been there, we have all made our share of mistakes, but that is why we can say we learned from experience, right? Or are we destined to repeat the same mistakes over and over?
Welcome! I am by no means a dating guru; in fact, I have never even had a relationship exceed one month in my life! How dare I even write this article! But, like most people in their twenties, I have had my fair share of pleasant and unpleasant experiences in the dating world to speak with conviction.
For years, in addition to dealing with my own impaired judgment, I have watched both my male and female friends alike go through the same kind of dating drama. It makes me sick how stupid and blind we can be in our own personal struggle to relate to the opposite sex. We find ourselves constantly misinterpreting the actions of the other, justifying ill behavior but then -worst of all- we are guilty of repeating the same mistakes over and over with each new person we meet. It's like we want to get hurt!
I am not suggesting that it is possible to live a life of love that is error free, because lets face it, there is no such thing as perfection. However, there are certain dating mistakes that are possible to avoid and worth avoiding.
The following lists focus on what I feel are ten of the most important dating strategies that most of us tend to ignore in our quest to find love (or what not). Bear in mind, it is the everyday stuff that we ignore that always comes back to haunt us.
For the Ladies
1.The man pursues the woman.
It is as simple as that. Women should not be the hunter, but rather the hunted. Men know what they want and will go after what they want. When women initiate contact by calling a guy, they set themselves up to be let down. If you don't believe me, think very hard about a relationship that you initiated and what happened to the relationship. Maybe things went well for a week, or two, maybe even a month, but after that...POOF! This is because men need to be the pursuer-it is the only true way to know whether they are truly interested. If he is not calling you, then he is probably not interested.
2.Avoid hang-ups!
Do not rub salt in your wounds. Sorry to have to use the cliché on this one, but there is really no better way to put it. Whatever do I mean? Ladies, you know when we think we've moved on from a guy, but then about two months later we decide "Maybe he changed his mind about me" or "Maybe if I call or send him a message, I'll put myself back in his head" NO! There is no excuse for this behavior (alcohol induced or not)! Why? Yes, I will admit, it is fun and entertaining to some extent, but it is a vicious cycle. Don't get hung up on one guy, especially if he's made it clear that he's not worth your time. Hang-ups like these take you two steps back! There are plenty of men out there-no need to stress one! Plus, why would you waste your precious, valuable time on someone who has already slighted you?
3.Two words: OVER-ANALYZATION
Over-analyzing a situation; we are all guilty of doing it on some level - especially those of us that like to think. I encourage thinking but dissecting every word that someone says and analyzing every gesture is torture in the very highest form! Employing bad communication tactics is often the culprit, especially in today's day and age where it has become second nature to use technology as a primary form of communication (i.e. the text message, email). However, no matter what form of communication is being applied, people will continue to baffle one another with impromptu gestures and ambiguous speech. When it comes to certain situations in life, there are a variety of times where one need not know the why part to.
4.Take everything at face value.
"I'll call you" "I want to be with you" Comments such as these mean NOTHING until they happen. Think about it. People like to talk. We are constantly making promises that we never intend to keep and we say things to others because we think it is what they want to hear. Words mean nothing until they are given meaning which of course, is set forth by example.
5.Actions speak louder than words.
This one seems pretty elementary but it's the one we never seem to get right and always try to defend. He didn't call you back when he said he was going to-that's kind of big. Sometimes unforeseen events do arise and it is necessary to cut someone a proverbial piece of slack, but when this happens more than once, especially in the preliminary stages of a relationship, PAY ATTENTION! This is a huge red flag! If someone can't complete a simple chore such as returning a phone call, how do you expect them to respond to larger commitments in the future?
6.Don't expect someone to change.
Never hope for change, because, well, people don't change. If a person has tendencies that you cannot overcome, you need to reexamine your thoughts on where the relationship is going. You should like someone for who they are, not for who you want them to be (weird tendencies and bad habits included).
7.Expecting to build a relationship off of a hook-up = NO!
The scenario: So you meet this guy at a party, and the two of you end up hanging out the entire night. As the evening winds down, things start to progress and before you know it, you are already naked! Oops! You're young, this stuff happens. These are the moments that you will fondly look back on with bittersweet memories when you are older. However, when you start developing feelings for the guy in this scenario and start OBSESSING when he goes MIA after the hook up, don't sit around and wonder why. The physical aspect of a relationship is something to lead up to, not start out at! Relationships should not go backwards! So to those of you out there who have difficulty exercising self-control, avoid physical situations such as the aforementioned. No guy will want to buy the cow when he can get the milk for free!
8.Don't fall for lame excuses!
"Sorry I didn't call, I've been really busy"
So he has had the most horrendous week ever! His cat died, his car was in the shop, he had to stay late at work, his grandma is in the hospital AND he pulled his hamstring at the gym! Ok so maybe this one seems a bit unfair and slightly inconsiderate, but I think 95% of guys will agree with me that if they want to talk to someone, they will. Everyone has a cell phone these days and most of us have it within a two-inch radius of us all day long, so if a guy truly wants to talk to a girl, he will find the cliché "5 minutes" to call her or let her know he's thinking about her. It is as simple as that.
9.Put down the phone!
When we like someone, it is usually a natural reaction to want to talk to them, especially if they are not calling us. We abandon all logical ways of thinking and start creating excuses as to why this person is not calling us. Women always want what they cannot have so especially in situations where we feel we are being resisted, it is natural that we try harder. However, the reality of it all is that when we do not make ourselves as available, this is when guys tend to become intrigued. Men love a chase just as much as women do. Don't sell yourself short! [And if they are still not calling, well, I guess it was not meant to be. Move on.]
10.Chalk it up to experience!
One of my most favorite quotes in the world is by Robert Frost. "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." Things happen. Move on. You need to take the lesson that was learned and move forward. Harboring on things that could have happened is pointless. It is impossible to change the past so you may as well learn from it. Some things in life aren't meant to be. There is only one phrase you need to memorize here and that is: "NEXT!"
For the Men
1.Don't play games.
If you like her, call her, pursue her. It is that easy. The time you waste playing games = the time that you are wasting in which you could be getting to know her. It is not about winning or losing or even keeping score (get over yourself). If you are just about having a "commitment free good time" then find yourself a girl with a similar mindset who will sleep with you no strings attached. Do not mess with a person of substance.
2.Initiate a phone call.
The year is now 2008. If you cannot figure out that women like to be pursued, then you are oblivious! DO NOT WAIT FOR HER TO CALL YOU. BEING "SHY" IS NOT AN EXCUSE! Most girls do not buy into this women's lib crap that it is the new thing to call guys and to pursue them, it's weird. When a girl initiates contact first, it changes the dynamics of a relationship before if even begins. Remember: It is one thing for a girl to return your phone call, but to expect her to be the one calling you- that is backwards. Do you guys really want to be undermined by a female?
3.Be a prude.
Most guys do not do this. They are ready to take their clothes off after the first date, maybe even on the first date. Learn to play the prude card. This is a good tactic to try if you really like someone. Since women of today's generation have more control than ever in the bedroom, it is usually in a man's best interest to let her set the pace. By exercising some self-control, this will demonstrate that you are not just in it for some action.
4.Too much too soon
ATTENTION: DO NOT BLOW UP HER PHONE. No one wants to be smothered. It is important to remember that if your calls are less frequent (use judgment) but full bodied and meaningful, you will create a longing. Know where to draw the line. After all, getting to know someone is a process. Enjoy a person- good things should not be rushed! You can never take a relationship to slow, but you always can take it too fast.
5.Be a gentleman. Little gestures go a long way.
This one seems like it would be so easy; Holding a door, offering a jacket, not walking ten feet in front of a girl. Yet, many of you seem not to have mastered the art of basic manners. It has nothing to do with "impressing" a girl but instead, it shows that you have a little something called class and respect (something that is severely lacking in today's generation). It may seem like an old-school ideal, but this one is a good judge of character.
6.Be CONFIDENT!
You may look good, but believe me ,your actions will dictate whether of not you are a solid person. Be who you are and be proud of it. Nothing is more of a turn off then when a guy tries to act like someone or something he's not. Confidence is key. When a person has a good relationship with themselves, it is natural that they will have a good relationship with others. In other words, you need to like you before you can start liking someone else. After all, women are blood hounds-they can sniff out insecurities from a mile away! For example, guys who find the need to boast their salary or even mention it for that matter = INSECURITY (and aside from being an insecurity, it is a really big turn off.)
7.Don't be cheap.
I am not saying that guys should have to foot the bill every time, however, if you ask a girl out, that means you pay. That is a general rule of thumb. Most girls will offer to pay out of kindness-I do this all the time! Half of the time I don't even have my wallet on me! This is not to say that I let a guy pay for every facet of the evening though. Most girls will offer to buy a round of drinks or pick up a parking fee, etc. In this case it is ok to let a girl take care of it, do not argue with her about it. Additionally, if you are ever out with another couple, and even utter the words "separate checks" you may as well just post a sign on your forehead that says "I am cheap!" It isn't rocket science to round the total of a bill and divide it by 2! Suggesting separate checks is extremely tacky and if you are that concerned about money, then maybe you shouldn't be out to dinner.
8.Don't sell yourself.
I once dated this guy that would back up every nice gesture he did by saying "its because I'm a nice guy" (literally every time he did something nice such as pay a bill, or offer his services), and it was such a big turn off, that I would forget what it was that he was even doing nice in the first place. This kind of behavior parallels the whole "actions speak louder than words" idea. There is no need to sell yourself to someone. First of all, if you do a nice deed it should be because you wanted to and because you're a gentleman. There is no need to introduce or close nice gestures with remarks like "because I'm a nice guy." Any girl will notice a nice gesture and will not need it to be brought to her attention. In the event she takes your gentleman-like ways for granted-ditch her and find someone who appreciates them!
9.Be honest. Lying isn't nice.
If you are not that into a girl, you need to tell her. Believe me; ANY girl will respect you more if you are upfront with her. If you don't confront her, then you either have really low self-esteem or loathe the idea of having no one. If you see a girl is into you, and you can't return that same affection, don't be selfish. Additionally, if you don't want to be tied down, say so. When someone gets the wrong idea about you, nine out of ten times it's because you gave them the wrong idea. Moral of the story: If you don't intend on calling her, then don't tell her that you will and get her hopes up.
10.Be prepared to do some work!
Show her that you are interested! This goes back to my favorite rule "actions speak louder than words." No girl wants a lazy guy. I'm not saying that girls should just sit back and relax while the man does all the work. Like anything else in life, it is give and take. However, it is the guy's job to get the ball rolling. Most guys seem to carry the "fear of rejection" gene in which they purposely wuss out of situations. Don't "sissify" yourself! Some situation may require you to take a leap of faith. Just remember: "It is better to have tried and failed then to have never tried at all."
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In my personal quest to find "the one" I have always found the guy who is "the one for right now" who naturally turns out to be "not quite what I had in mind" and then ultimately "why didn't you guys stop me!" Yes, we have all been there, we have all made our share of mistakes, but that is why we can say we learned from experience, right? Or are we destined to repeat the same mistakes over and over?
Welcome! I am by no means a dating guru; in fact, I have never even had a relationship exceed one month in my life! How dare I even write this article! But, like most people in their twenties, I have had my fair share of pleasant and unpleasant experiences in the dating world to speak with conviction.
For years, in addition to dealing with my own impaired judgment, I have watched both my male and female friends alike go through the same kind of dating drama. It makes me sick how stupid and blind we can be in our own personal struggle to relate to the opposite sex. We find ourselves constantly misinterpreting the actions of the other, justifying ill behavior but then -worst of all- we are guilty of repeating the same mistakes over and over with each new person we meet. It's like we want to get hurt!
I am not suggesting that it is possible to live a life of love that is error free, because lets face it, there is no such thing as perfection. However, there are certain dating mistakes that are possible to avoid and worth avoiding.
The following lists focus on what I feel are ten of the most important dating strategies that most of us tend to ignore in our quest to find love (or what not). Bear in mind, it is the everyday stuff that we ignore that always comes back to haunt us.
For the Ladies
1.The man pursues the woman.
It is as simple as that. Women should not be the hunter, but rather the hunted. Men know what they want and will go after what they want. When women initiate contact by calling a guy, they set themselves up to be let down. If you don't believe me, think very hard about a relationship that you initiated and what happened to the relationship. Maybe things went well for a week, or two, maybe even a month, but after that...POOF! This is because men need to be the pursuer-it is the only true way to know whether they are truly interested. If he is not calling you, then he is probably not interested.
2.Avoid hang-ups!
Do not rub salt in your wounds. Sorry to have to use the cliché on this one, but there is really no better way to put it. Whatever do I mean? Ladies, you know when we think we've moved on from a guy, but then about two months later we decide "Maybe he changed his mind about me" or "Maybe if I call or send him a message, I'll put myself back in his head" NO! There is no excuse for this behavior (alcohol induced or not)! Why? Yes, I will admit, it is fun and entertaining to some extent, but it is a vicious cycle. Don't get hung up on one guy, especially if he's made it clear that he's not worth your time. Hang-ups like these take you two steps back! There are plenty of men out there-no need to stress one! Plus, why would you waste your precious, valuable time on someone who has already slighted you?
3.Two words: OVER-ANALYZATION
Over-analyzing a situation; we are all guilty of doing it on some level - especially those of us that like to think. I encourage thinking but dissecting every word that someone says and analyzing every gesture is torture in the very highest form! Employing bad communication tactics is often the culprit, especially in today's day and age where it has become second nature to use technology as a primary form of communication (i.e. the text message, email). However, no matter what form of communication is being applied, people will continue to baffle one another with impromptu gestures and ambiguous speech. When it comes to certain situations in life, there are a variety of times where one need not know the why part to.
4.Take everything at face value.
"I'll call you" "I want to be with you" Comments such as these mean NOTHING until they happen. Think about it. People like to talk. We are constantly making promises that we never intend to keep and we say things to others because we think it is what they want to hear. Words mean nothing until they are given meaning which of course, is set forth by example.
5.Actions speak louder than words.
This one seems pretty elementary but it's the one we never seem to get right and always try to defend. He didn't call you back when he said he was going to-that's kind of big. Sometimes unforeseen events do arise and it is necessary to cut someone a proverbial piece of slack, but when this happens more than once, especially in the preliminary stages of a relationship, PAY ATTENTION! This is a huge red flag! If someone can't complete a simple chore such as returning a phone call, how do you expect them to respond to larger commitments in the future?
6.Don't expect someone to change.
Never hope for change, because, well, people don't change. If a person has tendencies that you cannot overcome, you need to reexamine your thoughts on where the relationship is going. You should like someone for who they are, not for who you want them to be (weird tendencies and bad habits included).
7.Expecting to build a relationship off of a hook-up = NO!
The scenario: So you meet this guy at a party, and the two of you end up hanging out the entire night. As the evening winds down, things start to progress and before you know it, you are already naked! Oops! You're young, this stuff happens. These are the moments that you will fondly look back on with bittersweet memories when you are older. However, when you start developing feelings for the guy in this scenario and start OBSESSING when he goes MIA after the hook up, don't sit around and wonder why. The physical aspect of a relationship is something to lead up to, not start out at! Relationships should not go backwards! So to those of you out there who have difficulty exercising self-control, avoid physical situations such as the aforementioned. No guy will want to buy the cow when he can get the milk for free!
8.Don't fall for lame excuses!
"Sorry I didn't call, I've been really busy"
So he has had the most horrendous week ever! His cat died, his car was in the shop, he had to stay late at work, his grandma is in the hospital AND he pulled his hamstring at the gym! Ok so maybe this one seems a bit unfair and slightly inconsiderate, but I think 95% of guys will agree with me that if they want to talk to someone, they will. Everyone has a cell phone these days and most of us have it within a two-inch radius of us all day long, so if a guy truly wants to talk to a girl, he will find the cliché "5 minutes" to call her or let her know he's thinking about her. It is as simple as that.
9.Put down the phone!
When we like someone, it is usually a natural reaction to want to talk to them, especially if they are not calling us. We abandon all logical ways of thinking and start creating excuses as to why this person is not calling us. Women always want what they cannot have so especially in situations where we feel we are being resisted, it is natural that we try harder. However, the reality of it all is that when we do not make ourselves as available, this is when guys tend to become intrigued. Men love a chase just as much as women do. Don't sell yourself short! [And if they are still not calling, well, I guess it was not meant to be. Move on.]
10.Chalk it up to experience!
One of my most favorite quotes in the world is by Robert Frost. "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." Things happen. Move on. You need to take the lesson that was learned and move forward. Harboring on things that could have happened is pointless. It is impossible to change the past so you may as well learn from it. Some things in life aren't meant to be. There is only one phrase you need to memorize here and that is: "NEXT!"
For the Men
1.Don't play games.
If you like her, call her, pursue her. It is that easy. The time you waste playing games = the time that you are wasting in which you could be getting to know her. It is not about winning or losing or even keeping score (get over yourself). If you are just about having a "commitment free good time" then find yourself a girl with a similar mindset who will sleep with you no strings attached. Do not mess with a person of substance.
2.Initiate a phone call.
The year is now 2008. If you cannot figure out that women like to be pursued, then you are oblivious! DO NOT WAIT FOR HER TO CALL YOU. BEING "SHY" IS NOT AN EXCUSE! Most girls do not buy into this women's lib crap that it is the new thing to call guys and to pursue them, it's weird. When a girl initiates contact first, it changes the dynamics of a relationship before if even begins. Remember: It is one thing for a girl to return your phone call, but to expect her to be the one calling you- that is backwards. Do you guys really want to be undermined by a female?
3.Be a prude.
Most guys do not do this. They are ready to take their clothes off after the first date, maybe even on the first date. Learn to play the prude card. This is a good tactic to try if you really like someone. Since women of today's generation have more control than ever in the bedroom, it is usually in a man's best interest to let her set the pace. By exercising some self-control, this will demonstrate that you are not just in it for some action.
4.Too much too soon
ATTENTION: DO NOT BLOW UP HER PHONE. No one wants to be smothered. It is important to remember that if your calls are less frequent (use judgment) but full bodied and meaningful, you will create a longing. Know where to draw the line. After all, getting to know someone is a process. Enjoy a person- good things should not be rushed! You can never take a relationship to slow, but you always can take it too fast.
5.Be a gentleman. Little gestures go a long way.
This one seems like it would be so easy; Holding a door, offering a jacket, not walking ten feet in front of a girl. Yet, many of you seem not to have mastered the art of basic manners. It has nothing to do with "impressing" a girl but instead, it shows that you have a little something called class and respect (something that is severely lacking in today's generation). It may seem like an old-school ideal, but this one is a good judge of character.
6.Be CONFIDENT!
You may look good, but believe me ,your actions will dictate whether of not you are a solid person. Be who you are and be proud of it. Nothing is more of a turn off then when a guy tries to act like someone or something he's not. Confidence is key. When a person has a good relationship with themselves, it is natural that they will have a good relationship with others. In other words, you need to like you before you can start liking someone else. After all, women are blood hounds-they can sniff out insecurities from a mile away! For example, guys who find the need to boast their salary or even mention it for that matter = INSECURITY (and aside from being an insecurity, it is a really big turn off.)
7.Don't be cheap.
I am not saying that guys should have to foot the bill every time, however, if you ask a girl out, that means you pay. That is a general rule of thumb. Most girls will offer to pay out of kindness-I do this all the time! Half of the time I don't even have my wallet on me! This is not to say that I let a guy pay for every facet of the evening though. Most girls will offer to buy a round of drinks or pick up a parking fee, etc. In this case it is ok to let a girl take care of it, do not argue with her about it. Additionally, if you are ever out with another couple, and even utter the words "separate checks" you may as well just post a sign on your forehead that says "I am cheap!" It isn't rocket science to round the total of a bill and divide it by 2! Suggesting separate checks is extremely tacky and if you are that concerned about money, then maybe you shouldn't be out to dinner.
8.Don't sell yourself.
I once dated this guy that would back up every nice gesture he did by saying "its because I'm a nice guy" (literally every time he did something nice such as pay a bill, or offer his services), and it was such a big turn off, that I would forget what it was that he was even doing nice in the first place. This kind of behavior parallels the whole "actions speak louder than words" idea. There is no need to sell yourself to someone. First of all, if you do a nice deed it should be because you wanted to and because you're a gentleman. There is no need to introduce or close nice gestures with remarks like "because I'm a nice guy." Any girl will notice a nice gesture and will not need it to be brought to her attention. In the event she takes your gentleman-like ways for granted-ditch her and find someone who appreciates them!
9.Be honest. Lying isn't nice.
If you are not that into a girl, you need to tell her. Believe me; ANY girl will respect you more if you are upfront with her. If you don't confront her, then you either have really low self-esteem or loathe the idea of having no one. If you see a girl is into you, and you can't return that same affection, don't be selfish. Additionally, if you don't want to be tied down, say so. When someone gets the wrong idea about you, nine out of ten times it's because you gave them the wrong idea. Moral of the story: If you don't intend on calling her, then don't tell her that you will and get her hopes up.
10.Be prepared to do some work!
Show her that you are interested! This goes back to my favorite rule "actions speak louder than words." No girl wants a lazy guy. I'm not saying that girls should just sit back and relax while the man does all the work. Like anything else in life, it is give and take. However, it is the guy's job to get the ball rolling. Most guys seem to carry the "fear of rejection" gene in which they purposely wuss out of situations. Don't "sissify" yourself! Some situation may require you to take a leap of faith. Just remember: "It is better to have tried and failed then to have never tried at all."
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5 Top Dating Tips for Guys
Guys: 5 top secrets for success with online dating! Improve your chances of getting dates from online dating sites! Dramatically reduce the number of rejections! Just follow some simple guidelines and learn the secrets practiced by the pros!
1. Girls often say "looks don't matter", or "it's personality that counts". So how comes they won't talk to you simply because you don't have a photo on your profile!? We rest our case!
2. You think your "copy and paste" message will impress the women? Uhuh! Don't think so. If you are going for the mass marketing approach, at least make your copy and paste message sound unique. better still, just add a line to it that's specific to the girl you're contacting!
3. Think neuro-linguistic-programming. Works for Ros Jeffries and it can for you. think about the words you use when contacting someone. Read their profile. pick up on key words and fire back variations of them to build up an emotional connection from their point of view.
4. Sometimes you get a load of meaningless and unthoughtful rubbish from a woman who writes to you. Don't feel the need to retaliate. At best, you'd be wasting your time, at worst you'll get banned from the site.
5. If you think that an ongoing correspondence will improve your prospects, think again. there's no point. You could be writing to someone for months only to find that when you meet it's a huge disappointment. Don't waste your time. Ask a woman out at the earliest of either 3-5 email exchanges or two weeks, whichever is the earliest. It'll sort out the women who want to meet from the timewasters.
There will be more dating tips coming shortly for guys to be closely followed by top tips for girls!
Ben Janus writes for Datezine and other newspapers and magazines.
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1. Girls often say "looks don't matter", or "it's personality that counts". So how comes they won't talk to you simply because you don't have a photo on your profile!? We rest our case!
2. You think your "copy and paste" message will impress the women? Uhuh! Don't think so. If you are going for the mass marketing approach, at least make your copy and paste message sound unique. better still, just add a line to it that's specific to the girl you're contacting!
3. Think neuro-linguistic-programming. Works for Ros Jeffries and it can for you. think about the words you use when contacting someone. Read their profile. pick up on key words and fire back variations of them to build up an emotional connection from their point of view.
4. Sometimes you get a load of meaningless and unthoughtful rubbish from a woman who writes to you. Don't feel the need to retaliate. At best, you'd be wasting your time, at worst you'll get banned from the site.
5. If you think that an ongoing correspondence will improve your prospects, think again. there's no point. You could be writing to someone for months only to find that when you meet it's a huge disappointment. Don't waste your time. Ask a woman out at the earliest of either 3-5 email exchanges or two weeks, whichever is the earliest. It'll sort out the women who want to meet from the timewasters.
There will be more dating tips coming shortly for guys to be closely followed by top tips for girls!
Ben Janus writes for Datezine and other newspapers and magazines.
For more top tips by Ben, real life stories submitted by real people, an interactive forum and dating site reviews submitted by you, the reader click onto http://www.datezine.co.uk
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How To Flirt With Women & Meet More Beautiful Women From There Secret Body Language
To get noticed and to entice women easily, you mistunderstand there secret body language is so much more to it then simple glance at you! There is so much more to understanding your bombshells personality trait, how to win her over with 3 sentences, a few body signals and a brisk touch on her hand.
Face it, you aren't the best pick up god, you don't have women phoning you every week asking to go out with you, and if you do have quite a few - chances are they are the 'wrong' few. Picking up a hot woman is not really all that hard boys! Finding all the hot but not crazy and psycho ones is the true test. Once you find the right knowledge on approaching or enticing women, they quickly learn that being cautious isn't so bad - because there is less filtering and this will help you meet more beautiful women.
How to flirt with women and get into their head and digging deep to find out their weaknesses, strengths and knowing how to power her desire, happiness, her longing for you is rather the challenge! Is it impossible? No! Why? Because many have tried to figure women and men out over the years, and what/how we respond to certain things, visuals, scents, activity etc. Science plays a major role in the law of attraction. Making yourself unavailable or impossible in the eyes of the women around you will both create demand and curiosity as to why you are not all over these women.
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Face it, you aren't the best pick up god, you don't have women phoning you every week asking to go out with you, and if you do have quite a few - chances are they are the 'wrong' few. Picking up a hot woman is not really all that hard boys! Finding all the hot but not crazy and psycho ones is the true test. Once you find the right knowledge on approaching or enticing women, they quickly learn that being cautious isn't so bad - because there is less filtering and this will help you meet more beautiful women.
How to flirt with women and get into their head and digging deep to find out their weaknesses, strengths and knowing how to power her desire, happiness, her longing for you is rather the challenge! Is it impossible? No! Why? Because many have tried to figure women and men out over the years, and what/how we respond to certain things, visuals, scents, activity etc. Science plays a major role in the law of attraction. Making yourself unavailable or impossible in the eyes of the women around you will both create demand and curiosity as to why you are not all over these women.
So you think you can entice hot women? I challenge you to take the idiot challenge with me!! This site ahead is so funny and non-threatening that I had to give it 5 stars! Even the worst pick up lines done with real audio ads, and the live model that talks to you is really professional.
See for yourself, you just might get addicted to this site www.seduction4idiots.info
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Helpful Dating Advice for Shy Guys
The dating world can be a very intimidating place. It's even more so if you are a shy person. Trying to approach a woman you are interested in can become overwhelming if you find yourself feeling uncomfortable in social situations. With the right dating advice for shy guys you can learn how to strike up a conversation with an attractive woman and ensure that she finds you charming and intriguing.
One of the best pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to carefully choose where you go to meet women. Most men consider a crowded bar or nightclub the optimum choice. It's not. If you are unsure about how to get a woman's attention, going to a crowded nightspot will make it even more challenging. Most nightclubs will be packed with other single men all looking for the same thing you are. You'd do much better to go to a relaxed spot where you know you'll have something to talk to a woman about. Pick a grocery store, hardware store or library. Not only will your competition be much less but it's a lot easier to get her attention by asking about something as non-threatening as how delicious the fruit is at this time of year or what book she recommends.
Listening can sometimes be a lost art form, particularly in the singles scene. One of the most helpful pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to listen when you are interested in a woman. Once you approach here, ensure that you listen carefully to what she says. If you've been nervous in the past about what you'll talk to an attractive woman about, that issue can be solved by listening and picking up on what she is saying. If she talks about her work, ask her questions about it. Not only will it keep the conversation flowing smoothly but your interest in her will really impress her too.
There's no shame in bringing along some support when you are venturing out to meet women. Bring along a single friend and look to them for encouragement. It can be much easier to approach a woman if you are with someone else. She'll likely also see you as less threatening. Once the conversation starts, your friend can politely excuse himself leaving you to focus just on the woman. This is great dating advice for shy guys because it can give them a little extra boost in confidence knowing they've got someone supportive nearby.
Women understand that not all men are lady killers. They are actually incredibly grateful for that fact. Once you get to know a woman, don't be afraid to tell her that you are a little shy. It will give her some insight into how you're feeling and it will make you feel better knowing she understands.
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One of the best pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to carefully choose where you go to meet women. Most men consider a crowded bar or nightclub the optimum choice. It's not. If you are unsure about how to get a woman's attention, going to a crowded nightspot will make it even more challenging. Most nightclubs will be packed with other single men all looking for the same thing you are. You'd do much better to go to a relaxed spot where you know you'll have something to talk to a woman about. Pick a grocery store, hardware store or library. Not only will your competition be much less but it's a lot easier to get her attention by asking about something as non-threatening as how delicious the fruit is at this time of year or what book she recommends.
Listening can sometimes be a lost art form, particularly in the singles scene. One of the most helpful pieces of dating advice for shy guys is to listen when you are interested in a woman. Once you approach here, ensure that you listen carefully to what she says. If you've been nervous in the past about what you'll talk to an attractive woman about, that issue can be solved by listening and picking up on what she is saying. If she talks about her work, ask her questions about it. Not only will it keep the conversation flowing smoothly but your interest in her will really impress her too.
There's no shame in bringing along some support when you are venturing out to meet women. Bring along a single friend and look to them for encouragement. It can be much easier to approach a woman if you are with someone else. She'll likely also see you as less threatening. Once the conversation starts, your friend can politely excuse himself leaving you to focus just on the woman. This is great dating advice for shy guys because it can give them a little extra boost in confidence knowing they've got someone supportive nearby.
Women understand that not all men are lady killers. They are actually incredibly grateful for that fact. Once you get to know a woman, don't be afraid to tell her that you are a little shy. It will give her some insight into how you're feeling and it will make you feel better knowing she understands.
Even shy guys can have amazing success with beautiful women. Find out the best way to approach women and gain some insight into what women are really looking for in a dating partner. For more tips on how to approach interesting women and to keep their interest, visit this [http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-get-a-woman-to-fall-in-love ]Helpful Site!
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Top 5 Tips on How to Spot a Gold Digger
I want a man that can take care of me. I need to be pampered, provided with monthly incomes and allowances. Does this sound like someone you're dating? Find out how to spot a gold digger!
#1 Watch out for RED flag questions.
Red flag questions are questions such as; how much do you make a year? Are you a homeowner? and what type of car do you drive? Oh and we must not forget the pressing question: How many kids do you have? These are the top 3 questions that a gold digger will ask you on the first conversation or if you are lucky, on your first date with her.
How much do you make a year? Why would she ask this question? Because a gold digger is a mobile calculator, therefore every question that relates to money is calculated to determine the percentage of the total amount that she believes she "deserves".
Are you a homeowner? And what type of car do you drive? If that type of woman asks you those particular questions, then she is trying to determine your overall worth and whether being with you is a profitable investment for her. She would expect and only accept you if you are homeowner and you drive a luxury vehicle.
How many kids do you have? Your answer to the question will help her determine (calculate) much of your income and attention goes to your children and how much time you can devote to her. A gold digger is a needy individual that will take up a lot of your money, time and energy.
#2 She's firm on only dating men who are wealthy and can take care of her.
Most women want to be with a man that is capable of providing for them in the future; however, gold diggers need to be with a man that will take care of them. This means that she will expect you to take care of all the expenses, provide her will a monthly income and daily allowances for her special needs.
#3 She's always asking you for money.
You can spot a gold digger if she can't resist from continuously asking you for money. Usually they begin with small requests for the first couple of days and gradually increase the amounts to determine your absolute limit. Remember that they are calculating how much they can get from you, during the period of time that they are with you. Most gold diggers are very skilled at it and know how and when to ask for money. However, their requests are usually accompanied by a flirtatious and/or sexual tease to prevent you from thinking about the amount.
#4 She remains with you because of the financial perks and rewards.
A gold digger loves to be pampered and be in the spotlight, therefore they want to be with someone that attends many galas, loves to dine out, generally hosts and attends parties or social gatherings and travels very often. This provides them with assurance on their investment, which is you and motivates them to continue the relationship. However, once the perks and rewards die down so does her interest in continuing the relationship.
#5 She doesn't seem to care about you or your relationship with her.
A gold digger only cares about the relationship between her and your money. Everything else comes last. She may seem genuine, interested and devoted but those are all tactics that she will use to maintain her desired lifestyle. It's not personal with them, It's just business.
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#1 Watch out for RED flag questions.
Red flag questions are questions such as; how much do you make a year? Are you a homeowner? and what type of car do you drive? Oh and we must not forget the pressing question: How many kids do you have? These are the top 3 questions that a gold digger will ask you on the first conversation or if you are lucky, on your first date with her.
How much do you make a year? Why would she ask this question? Because a gold digger is a mobile calculator, therefore every question that relates to money is calculated to determine the percentage of the total amount that she believes she "deserves".
Are you a homeowner? And what type of car do you drive? If that type of woman asks you those particular questions, then she is trying to determine your overall worth and whether being with you is a profitable investment for her. She would expect and only accept you if you are homeowner and you drive a luxury vehicle.
How many kids do you have? Your answer to the question will help her determine (calculate) much of your income and attention goes to your children and how much time you can devote to her. A gold digger is a needy individual that will take up a lot of your money, time and energy.
#2 She's firm on only dating men who are wealthy and can take care of her.
Most women want to be with a man that is capable of providing for them in the future; however, gold diggers need to be with a man that will take care of them. This means that she will expect you to take care of all the expenses, provide her will a monthly income and daily allowances for her special needs.
#3 She's always asking you for money.
You can spot a gold digger if she can't resist from continuously asking you for money. Usually they begin with small requests for the first couple of days and gradually increase the amounts to determine your absolute limit. Remember that they are calculating how much they can get from you, during the period of time that they are with you. Most gold diggers are very skilled at it and know how and when to ask for money. However, their requests are usually accompanied by a flirtatious and/or sexual tease to prevent you from thinking about the amount.
#4 She remains with you because of the financial perks and rewards.
A gold digger loves to be pampered and be in the spotlight, therefore they want to be with someone that attends many galas, loves to dine out, generally hosts and attends parties or social gatherings and travels very often. This provides them with assurance on their investment, which is you and motivates them to continue the relationship. However, once the perks and rewards die down so does her interest in continuing the relationship.
#5 She doesn't seem to care about you or your relationship with her.
A gold digger only cares about the relationship between her and your money. Everything else comes last. She may seem genuine, interested and devoted but those are all tactics that she will use to maintain her desired lifestyle. It's not personal with them, It's just business.
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The Secret Personality Traits That Girls Want
The Secret Personality Traits That Girls Want - Girls Desperately Want You to Have These
You see being attractive to a girl is more than just good looks or a big wallet. But this is something which most men seem to think, they feel that good looks and money are two things which would get them girls. You see it might get you girls but not in the long term. If they are around you than they are their probably for the money or some other advantage they would gain out of you. You see girls demand much more than that and there are several things you must have in order to really attract girls. Read on to discover what these factors and how you can master them...
Learn to be smart- Do you know that women always want to date guys who are smarter than them? Their would rarely be a case where a girl ends up with a guy who is not smarter than her. You see there is a reason for that, women want to stay around men who are smarter and know what they are talking about. They want to be around someone they can feel good with.
You better control your emotions- Now this is something most guys out there have to learn yet only a few has mastered this. You see your emotions are such things which can make it or break it for you at the same time. Getting too emotional or acting needy or desperate would only make you highly unattractive to females therefore learn to control your emotions especially around females.
You should not be looking- Do you know that with women you don't always get what you want from them? Rather you get what you want when you don't even ask for it? You see when you are not really looking it makes you even more attractive to them as now you are someone who might be too hard to get and this is where the game gets interesting.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret click here- [http://girlmagnet66.com/ ]Tell me the Secret
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You see being attractive to a girl is more than just good looks or a big wallet. But this is something which most men seem to think, they feel that good looks and money are two things which would get them girls. You see it might get you girls but not in the long term. If they are around you than they are their probably for the money or some other advantage they would gain out of you. You see girls demand much more than that and there are several things you must have in order to really attract girls. Read on to discover what these factors and how you can master them...
Learn to be smart- Do you know that women always want to date guys who are smarter than them? Their would rarely be a case where a girl ends up with a guy who is not smarter than her. You see there is a reason for that, women want to stay around men who are smarter and know what they are talking about. They want to be around someone they can feel good with.
You better control your emotions- Now this is something most guys out there have to learn yet only a few has mastered this. You see your emotions are such things which can make it or break it for you at the same time. Getting too emotional or acting needy or desperate would only make you highly unattractive to females therefore learn to control your emotions especially around females.
You should not be looking- Do you know that with women you don't always get what you want from them? Rather you get what you want when you don't even ask for it? You see when you are not really looking it makes you even more attractive to them as now you are someone who might be too hard to get and this is where the game gets interesting.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret click here- [http://girlmagnet66.com/ ]Tell me the Secret
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Does She Like me? Stunning Ways to Figure Out Whether She Really Likes You or Not
Do you know that most women actually do most of the talking with their bodies than their mouth? You see if they seem to like you they might not vocally tell you but at the same time they would give you several body signals which would be more than enough to prove that they truly like you. Figuring out whether she likes you or not isn't all that difficult if you know how to read her. Read on to discover some of the most explosive was to figure out whether she truly likes you or not and achieve mind blowing results...
Her body would always be tilted towards you- You see whenever she is sitting around look at the focus of her body and the direction of it. When a girl seems to like you her body would always be in an open state and facing towards you. This normally implies that she is more than open and ready for anything and everything with you and she probably likes you a lot.
Look at her facial expressions- You see she would be more than attentive when she is talking to you and her facial expressions would prove it all. When she answers you or listens with a lot of body gestures it means she is really trying to tell you that she is attentive and is trying really hard to be attentive which means she likes you.
She would ask you a lot of personal questions- Now this is the perfect sign that she is into you. You see if she truly likes you she would be more then interested in knowing whether you have a girl friend or not and whether you are looking for one or not. You see one way or the other she would end up asking you a lot of questions which generally means she likes you.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret click here- [http://girlmagnet66.com/ ]Tell me the Secret
Her body would always be tilted towards you- You see whenever she is sitting around look at the focus of her body and the direction of it. When a girl seems to like you her body would always be in an open state and facing towards you. This normally implies that she is more than open and ready for anything and everything with you and she probably likes you a lot.
Look at her facial expressions- You see she would be more than attentive when she is talking to you and her facial expressions would prove it all. When she answers you or listens with a lot of body gestures it means she is really trying to tell you that she is attentive and is trying really hard to be attentive which means she likes you.
She would ask you a lot of personal questions- Now this is the perfect sign that she is into you. You see if she truly likes you she would be more then interested in knowing whether you have a girl friend or not and whether you are looking for one or not. You see one way or the other she would end up asking you a lot of questions which generally means she likes you.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret click here- [http://girlmagnet66.com/ ]Tell me the Secret
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