Saturday, March 8, 2008

5 Top Dating Tips for Guys

Guys: 5 top secrets for success with online dating! Improve your chances of getting dates from online dating sites! Dramatically reduce the number of rejections! Just follow some simple guidelines and learn the secrets practiced by the pros!

1. Girls often say "looks don't matter", or "it's personality that counts". So how comes they won't talk to you simply because you don't have a photo on your profile!? We rest our case!

2. You think your "copy and paste" message will impress the women? Uhuh! Don't think so. If you are going for the mass marketing approach, at least make your copy and paste message sound unique. better still, just add a line to it that's specific to the girl you're contacting!

3. Think neuro-linguistic-programming. Works for Ros Jeffries and it can for you. think about the words you use when contacting someone. Read their profile. pick up on key words and fire back variations of them to build up an emotional connection from their point of view.

4. Sometimes you get a load of meaningless and unthoughtful rubbish from a woman who writes to you. Don't feel the need to retaliate. At best, you'd be wasting your time, at worst you'll get banned from the site.

5. If you think that an ongoing correspondence will improve your prospects, think again. there's no point. You could be writing to someone for months only to find that when you meet it's a huge disappointment. Don't waste your time. Ask a woman out at the earliest of either 3-5 email exchanges or two weeks, whichever is the earliest. It'll sort out the women who want to meet from the timewasters.

There will be more dating tips coming shortly for guys to be closely followed by top tips for girls!

Ben Janus writes for Datezine and other newspapers and magazines.

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